TL;DR

  • 문제는 객체가 아니라 시선의 산물이다: Awareness가 켜지면 대부분 FactEvent.
  • 관계는 가치 교환과 자유의 균형으로 지속된다: 집착 X, 도움이 됨 O.
  • 자각=행동이어야 한다: “어떻게?”를 묻는 순간 이미 지연.

Big Picture — Unified Mermaid Map

flowchart LR
  LifeEvent["LifeEvent"]
  Awareness["Awareness"]
  
  subgraph SufferingChecker["SufferingChecker"]
    탐["탐심(貪)"]
    진["진심(瞋)"]
    치["치심(痴)"]
  end
  
  
  SufferingChecker["SufferingChecker"]
  ProblemEvent["ProblemEvent"]
  FactEvent["FactEvent"]
  Response["Response"]
  ImmediateResponse["ImmediateResponse"]
  ConditionalResponse["ConditionalResponse"]
  Resolve["Resolve"]
  NoProblem["No Problem"]

  LifeEvent --> Awareness
  Awareness --> SufferingChecker
  SufferingChecker --> |"yes"|ProblemEvent
  SufferingChecker --> |"no"|FactEvent
  
  Awareness --> Response
  Response --> ImmediateResponse
  Response --> ConditionalResponse
  
  ProblemEvent --> Resolve
  FactEvent --> NoProblem
  ImmediateResponse --> NoProblem
  ConditionalResponse --> |"delay"| ProblemEvent
  
  Resolve --> NoProblem
delayyesnoSufferingChecker탐심(貪)진심(瞋)치심(痴)LifeEventAwarenessProblemEventFactEventResponseImmediateResponseConditionalResponseResolveNo Problem

1) 문제 해체 — LifeEvent x Awareness

핵심 코드

class LifeEvent:
    """인생에서 일어나는 모든 이벤트의 최상위 클래스"""
    def process(self):
        pass
class Awareness:
    """자각 - 모든 변화의 시작점"""
    def __init__(self):
        self.is_awake = False
        self.question = "정말 무엇이 문제인가?"
    def wake_up(self):
        self.is_awake = True
        return self
    def examine(self, event):
        if not self.is_awake:
            return ProblemEvent(event)
        if self.ask_fundamental_question(event):
            return FactEvent(event)
        else:
            return FactEvent(event)
    def ask_fundamental_question(self, event):
        print(f"{event}가 {self.question}")
        return True
    def catch_찰나무지(self):
        if not self.is_awake:
            print("놓쳤구나!")
            self.wake_up()
class ProblemEvent(LifeEvent):
    def __init__(self, event):
        self.event = event
        self.story = self.create_story()
        self.suffering = True
    def process(self):
        return f"{self.event}는 큰 문제다! {self.story}"

class FactEvent(LifeEvent):
    def __init__(self, event):
        self.event = event
        self.suffering = False
    def process(self):
        return f"{self.event}가 일어났다. 해결하면 된다."
class SufferingChecker:
    @staticmethod
    def is_real_problem(event):
        questions = ["밥을 못 먹나?", "잠잘 곳이 없나?", "생존 위협인가?"]
        for q in questions:
            if answer_is_yes(q):
                return True
        return False

class Emptiness:
    _instance = None
    def __new__(cls):
        if cls._instance is None:
            cls._instance = super().__new__(cls)
        return cls._instance
    def reveal_truth(self, any_problem):
        return None

2) 관계와 인정 — 지속 가능한 관계의 객체지향

핵심 코드

class Relationship:
    def __init__(self):
        self.attachment = None
    def maintain(self):
        pass
    def leave(self):
        pass

class ValueExchange:
    def provide_value(self):
        pass
    def receive_value(self):
        pass
    def is_sustainable(self):
        return self.provide_value() is not None
class WorkRelationship(Relationship, ValueExchange):
    def provide_value(self):
        return self.contribute_to_profit()
    def maintain(self):
        return "계속 근무" if self.is_sustainable() else "자연스러운 이직"

class PersonalRelationship(Relationship, ValueExchange):
    def provide_value(self):
        return any([self.emotional_support(), self.material_help(), self.genuine_care()])
class LeavingEvent:
    def __init__(self, who_leaves):
        self.who_leaves = who_leaves
        self.awareness = Awareness()
    def process(self):
        if self.who_leaves == "나":
            return SelfInitiatedLeaving().execute()
        elif self.who_leaves == "상대":
            return OtherInitiatedLeaving().execute()

class SelfInitiatedLeaving:
    def execute(self):
        return "내 선택, 책임질 뿐"

class OtherInitiatedLeaving:
    def execute(self):
        return "그의 선택, 내 상처 아님"
class WorkStrategy:
    def decide_to_stay(self, current_state):
        pass

class FreedomStrategy(WorkStrategy):
    def decide_to_stay(self, current_state):
        if not current_state.is_helpful():
            return JustDoIt().leave()
        return True

class CommitmentStrategy(WorkStrategy):
    def __init__(self, years=3):
        self.commitment_period = years
        self.start_date = now()
    def decide_to_stay(self, current_state):
        if self.want_to_leave():
            print("번뇌 인식: 그냥 일어나는 마음일 뿐")
            return JustDoIt().stay()
        if self.period_completed():
            return self.evaluate_next_step()
class 번뇌Handler:
    def __init__(self):
        self._inner_turmoil = "그만두고 싶다"
        self._actual_need = None
    def process(self):
        return self.aware_and_continue()
    def aware_and_continue(self):
        return "수행 삼아 다니기"

class RegretPreventionSystem:
    def __init__(self, history):
        self.past_patterns = history
    def analyze(self):
        return CommitmentStrategy(3) if self.has_regret_pattern() else FreedomStrategy()
    def has_regret_pattern(self):
        pattern = ["떠남 → 그리움 → 후회", "이직 → 그리움 → 후회"]
        return any(p in self.past_patterns for p in pattern)
class PatternInterruptSystem:
    def __init__(self):
        self.stages = [ImmediateInterrupt(), FactCheck(), ValueRealignment()]
    def execute(self):
        for stage in self.stages:
            if stage.process():
                return "패턴 차단 성공"
        return "다음 기회에 재시도"

class ImmediateInterrupt:
    def process(self):
        return physical_action()

class FactCheck:
    def process(self):
        questions = ["무엇이 일어났나?", "이게 나를 정의하나?", "1주 뒤에도 중요?"]
        return self.analyze_answers(questions)

class ValueRealignment:
    def process(self):
        my_core_values = ["이전보다 나아짐", "프로세스 개선", "자율적 해결"]
        return "오늘 이 가치들이 실현됐는가?"
class RecognitionNeedCircuitBreaker:
    def __init__(self):
        self.strategies = {
            "물리적_차단": self.physical_interrupt,
            "시간_지연": self.time_delay,
            "역발상_질문": self.reverse_question,
            "가치_앵커링": self.value_anchoring,
            "패턴_로그": self.pattern_logging,
        }
    def physical_interrupt(self):
        return "아, 또 그 패턴이구나" + physical_stimulus()
    def time_delay(self):
        return defer_emotion_evaluation(hours=48)
    def reverse_question(self):
        questions = ["내가 CEO라면 나를?", "인정이 아니라 재미라면?"]
        return contemplate(questions)
    def value_anchoring(self):
        return daily_practice("오늘 창출할 가치 3", "오늘 실현한 가치 3")
    def pattern_logging(self):
        return track_for_weeks(2)
class TrueFreedom:
    _instance = None
    def __new__(cls):
        if cls._instance is None:
            cls._instance = super().__new__(cls)
        return cls._instance
    def manifest(self):
        return {"매이지 않음": True, "도움이 됨": True, "후회 없음": True, "패턴 인식": True}

class 즉문즉설(Relationship, ValueExchange):
    def __init__(self):
        super().__init__()
        self.price = 0
        self.attachment = None
    def provide_value(self):
        return "도움이 되면 고마운 일"
    def receive_value(self):
        return "손해는 없음"
    def is_sustainable(self):
        return True
class BinaryTrap:
    def __init__(self):
        self.false_premise = "나는 특별해야 한다"
        self.result = {"인정받음": "우월", "인정못받음": "열등"}
    def escape(self):
        return "나는 그냥 나다"

class 평범한나:
    def __init__(self):
        self.need_to_prove = None
        self.comparison = None
        self.value = self.exist()
    def exist(self):
        return "그냥 있음"
    def daily_practice(self):
        checklist = {"밥": True, "일": True, "가족": True, "비교": False}
        return all(checklist.values())

class 실체인식:
    def __init__(self):
        self.i_am = "평범한 사람"
        self.need_to_be = "평범한 사람"
        self.gap = 0
    def see_through_three_lenses(self):
        return {"통계적": "70억 중 한 명", "불교적": "무아·연기·공", "실용적": "먹고 일하고 사랑"}
    def daily_check(self):
        if self.comparing_with_others():
            print("앗, 비교 모드!")
            return self.reset_to_평범()
        return "오늘도 평범하게 잘 살았다"

3) 그냥 하기 — 자각과 행동의 동시성

핵심 코드

벨이 울린다 → 벌떡 일어난다
영어회화 시간이다 → 그냥 시작한다
class Response:
    def react(self, stimulus):
        pass

class ImmediateResponse(Response):
    def react(self, stimulus):
        return stimulus.execute()

class ConditionalResponse(Response):
    def __init__(self):
        self.decision_pipeline, self.excuses, self.methods = [], [], []
    def react(self, stimulus):
        self.analyze(); self.deliberate(); self.procrastinate()
        return None
class ProcrastinationSystem:
    def __init__(self):
        self._actual_feeling = "하기 싫어"
    def elaborate_decision_process(self):
        awareness = self.fake_awareness()
        choice = self.fake_choice()
        responsibility = self.fake_responsibility()
        return "다음엔 잘 할게"

class JustDoIt:
    @staticmethod
    def execute(thing):
        pass
class JustDoItResponse(ImmediateResponse):
    def __init__(self):
        self.method = None
    def react(self, stimulus):
        return self.aware_and_act_simultaneously(stimulus)
    def aware_and_act_simultaneously(self, stimulus):
        return "즉시 실행"

class SequentialResponse(ConditionalResponse):
    def react(self, stimulus):
        self.step1_awareness = "아, 하기 싫구나"
        self.step2_deliberation = "어떻게 할까?"
        self.step3_planning = "시스템을 만들자"
        return None

통합 — 하루 루틴과 루프 차단

class DailyPractice:
    def __init__(self):
        self.awareness = Awareness()
        self.circuit_breaker = RecognitionNeedCircuitBreaker()
        self.response_mode = JustDoItResponse()
        self.平범 = 평범한나()
    def morning_routine(self):
        self.awareness.wake_up()
        return ["이전보다 나아지기", "프로세스 개선하기", "평범하게 살기"]
    def handle_trigger(self, trigger):
        if trigger == "인정 욕구":
            return self.circuit_breaker.physical_interrupt()
        elif trigger == "문제 발생":
            return self.awareness.ask_fundamental_question(trigger)
        else:
            return self.response_mode.react(trigger)
    def evening_review(self):
        questions = {
            "정말 문제였나?": False,
            "남과 비교했나?": False,
            "그냥 했나?": True,
            "평범하게 살았나?": True,
        }
        return self.calculate_peace_score(questions)
class ThreeSecondReset:
    def execute(self):
        print("아, 또 그 패턴!")
        physical_action()
        return "지금 할 일 하기"

class DailyCheckList:
    def check(self):
        return {
            "정말_무엇이_문제인가_물어봤나": True,
            "인정_욕구_패턴_잡아냈나": True,
            "그냥_하기_실천했나": True,
            "남과_비교하지_않았나": True,
        }